Glossary

BDSM, Fetish & Roleplay Terms

The MM Club uses a range of terms to describe different styles of domination, fetish play, roleplay, restraint, sensation, discipline, and power exchange.

This glossary is designed as a simple guide for clients who are curious, new, or unsure of the language. It is not a complete menu, and not every activity listed will be available with every Mistress.

All sessions are discussed before booking and are based on consent, discretion, hygiene, safety, and clearly agreed boundaries. Some requests may be declined for legal, safety, hygiene, or personal boundary reasons.

If you are unsure what to ask for, you are welcome to contact us with a clear and respectful enquiry.

Anal Play & Strap-On Training

Anal play, strap-on training, and related activities may be available by prior discussion. These sessions require clear communication around experience level, comfort, hygiene, pacing, limits, and safety.

Bondage

Bondage involves consensual restraint or restriction of movement. It may be sensual, strict, psychological, decorative, or discipline-based, depending on the session agreed.

Body Worship

Body worship focuses on admiration, service, and attention to Mistress. This may include worship of feet, legs, hands, boots, clothing, or other agreed areas.

Chastity & Orgasm Control

Chastity, edging, tease, denial, and orgasm control are based around restraint, anticipation, obedience, and Mistress-led control. These sessions may be playful, strict, sensual, or humiliating, depending on agreed boundaries.

Corporal Punishment

Corporal punishment involves impact play such as spanking, paddling, cropping, strapping, caning, or tawsing. Intensity, marking preferences, areas to avoid, and experience level should always be discussed before booking.

Cross-Dressing & Feminisation

Feminisation and cross-dressing sessions may involve clothing, lingerie, heels, wigs, make-up, presentation, roleplay, teasing, discipline, or humiliation. Sessions are arranged according to comfort level, interests, and agreed limits.

Double Mistress Sessions

A Double Mistress session involves two Mistresses leading or participating in the scene. These sessions may focus on sensory overload, service, teasing, restraint, discipline, humiliation, roleplay, or other negotiated elements.

Fetish Play

Fetish play may involve particular materials, clothing, body parts, sensations, objects, rituals, or scenarios. If you have a specific fetish, you are welcome to ask respectfully whether it can be accommodated.

Flogging

Flogging involves the use of floggers, whips, or similar implements. It may be light and sensual or more intense, depending on the Mistress, the agreed scene, and the client’s experience.

Foot Worship

Foot worship may include admiration, massage, service, attention to shoes or boots, or other agreed elements. It can be sensual, submissive, ritualistic, or humiliation-based.

Humiliation

Humiliation may include teasing, embarrassment, verbal control, objectification, obedience, or roleplay. Because humiliation is personal, language, limits, tone, and intensity should be clearly discussed beforehand.

Impact Play

Impact play includes spanking, paddling, cropping, flogging, caning, tawsing, and related forms of discipline. It can range from light and playful through to more intense punishment-based sessions.

Latex, Leather & PVC

Some clients enjoy the look, feel, smell, or restriction of materials such as latex, leather, or PVC. Availability depends on the Mistress, the items available, and the type of session requested.

Pet Play

Pet play may involve obedience, training, commands, collars, leads, masks, cages, roleplay, praise, teasing, or discipline. All elements should be discussed and agreed before the session.

Restraint

Restraint involves limiting movement through cuffs, rope, straps, bondage furniture, positional control, or other agreed methods. Comfort, safety, circulation, and communication are important.

Roleplay

Roleplay allows clients to explore a fantasy scenario with Mistress in control. Themes may include authority, discipline, service, inspection, interrogation, obedience, teasing, or other adult scenarios. All roleplay must remain consensual, legal, and clearly negotiated.

Safe Word

A safe word is used to pause or stop a session. It allows the client to communicate clearly if something needs to change. The MM Club uses safe words as part of maintaining consent, safety, and trust.

Sensation Play

Sensation play uses touch, temperature, texture, pressure, vibration, blindfolds, or other sensory elements. It may be soft and sensual or more intense, depending on the agreed scene.

Sensory Deprivation

Sensory deprivation involves reducing one or more senses, often through blindfolds, hoods, ear coverings, or restraint. This can heighten anticipation, vulnerability, and physical sensation.

Spanking

Spanking may be playful, sensual, disciplinary, humiliating, or punishment-based. It can be done by hand or with agreed implements, depending on the session.

Subspace

Subspace refers to an altered emotional or physical state some clients experience during intense or carefully built BDSM play. It depends on trust, communication, pacing, and the skill of the Mistress.

Tickling

Tickling may be playful, teasing, sensual, frustrating, or used as part of restraint and control. Limits should be discussed, as tickling can become intense quickly.

Watersports

Watersports or fluid play may be available by prior discussion only. These sessions require clear agreement around hygiene, limits, safety, and the Mistress’s personal boundaries.

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