Sex coaching is not just for virgins. In fact, there is something to be said for embracing not-knowing sexual techniques in those initial explorations. Finding out is half the fun, and worrying about prowess too much can detract from that clumsy joy.
Finding out is half the fun, and worrying about prowess too much can detract from that clumsy joy.
A sex worker can induct people into the pleasures of having sex, worry-free. And, we can bring the fun of finding out far beyond those first sexual experiences, extending it into intentional up-skilling in the bedroom.
Teaching sexual pleasure is not just about technique, although we love to share that. Upskilling can heighten the reception of pleasure as much as it elevates the giving of pleasure. It’s a win-win.
Different sex workers will have different areas of expertise to share, especially if it involves kink, anal play, or woman-on-woman/queer sex. But broadly, the common teaching ‘curriculum’ (we are not so formal as that) at Funhouse includes:
– how to use non-penetrative touch to drive someone to the edge of orgasm
– edging (penetrative or otherwise)
– oral sex skills and tips
– how to use fingers to their full pleasure potential
– how to use different sexual positions to produce different sensations
– the demi-gods of rhythm and tempo
– anatomy of a goddess
– sensual massage
– toys
– and what positions might feel particularly good for different body types.
My own favourite teaching sessions have included orgasm delay, kissing, roleplay, and multiple orgasm.
Learning to be an (even) better lover is also about elevating sexual communication and paying attention to one’s partners. That alone can turn good sex into mind-blowing sex. Learning to understand what is feeling good for individual partners is important because bodies are different and there is no one universal golden technique – even for one person (even if we know techniques that are great for most).
Learning to articulate different physical sensations and desires leads to better sex, because all too often people just don’t have the words for how they want a touch or approach to change. Likewise, sex is not just about the body – good communication can produce the mind-body connection that takes sex to the next level.
We can also teach ways of paying attention to the body to complement verbal communication. And like sex itself, learning to articulate sexual sensations and desires can take practice – sex workers are great for that.
It is true that a lot can be learnt from lovers in any situation, if people are open to some reflection, vulnerability or potentially awkward conversations. But if you want to add to your learning, or to get intentional about learning in a pressure and judgement-free zone, with actual sex professionals, removed from your personal life and relationships, then Funhouse is your best bet.
So if you want to get hot for teacher, give us a bell.